In my world survival rates are a very different thing, it means the opposite of dying.

I know D changes the financial circumstances of women.

Have you ever not had food on the table or a roof over your head? I know I went through that OMG what if... and then when I thought rationally, using that question above, I knew that I would be OK because I always had been. My life might be different but that didn't mean it would be worse. When things got tight, I got a second job (which I disliked, immensely)but I did it until I didn't need to do it. I cut what wasn't necessary, didn't but anything new, don't have a phone plan (!) blah, blah, blah

Ad, don't let your fears cloud your vision of what can be. You're an intelligent, savvy woman who has been living in a difficult, repressive situation. Open your cage, see the possibilities.

Your next job could be your best job ever. Or your next job could be a svcky job that leads to your best job ever.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss