Hey ((blues)), I'm so sorry. It's never easy even when you know the scale is already tipped that direction.

Julie had a very important point, you have already created a happier life without him. Don't let this drag you down too much.

Do you want to go to the party, etc with him? This is a time for you to find your voice. You can respect your needs and still be respectful, honest, and show compassion.

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I know if I don't bring things up that he'll sit on this for months more with no movement
He can ask for your help if he needs it.

If you want to move things along you can do that.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss