Originally Posted By: bluesgal
Good job, Paul. Stick to your plan. Have a positive attitude and do not follow your wife around. Let them be and give her space. This is good for the kids, but may be hard on you since she's coming over but it won't be the same.


Blues, I'm going out. I told W I will not be in house after 530. I did not give specifics. I only said I had plans for the evening. I told her I had popcorn and snacks for the kids to enjoy.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14