my wife left, but still lives with me #2/continued

[tough spot]

Well 25, I have always been the finance guy and she has rarely ever questioned me about it. So i can see that side of it. She isn't comfortable talking to me right now....she wishes she could be out of the house. She is very frustrated with 'limbo' and that presents itself in agitation around me. I am a constant reminder to her that she is in 'limbo'.

That would lead me to believe that conversations with me are not appealing. She had left open her facebook account the other day (which brought up the subject/question of spying). I failed to resist the temptation to snoop and read two of the messages she has had with her close friends.

In them, they are all mocking me for the changes I am attempting. I have been reading alot of 'self help books' and in an effort to 'gal' got a guitar...something I always wanted to try. So, there isn't apparently much respect towards me and who wants to talk to somone they don't respect? If I was to continue snooping i would warrant that I suppose. But to be the subject of ridicule...now that is painful. Not something I would have ever thought my wife would partake in.