indigo, I am with you. We've got to change our focus as LFW says. More focus on me and kids , less on WAS. we can still have compassion, kindness, but I know I want to lose the obsession, the wondering. Lets get there!
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13