indigo, I am with you. We've got to change our focus as LFW says.
More focus on me and kids , less on WAS. we can still have compassion, kindness, but I know I want to lose the obsession, the wondering.
Lets get there!


M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13