I really like AMb's post above.....I really like the couple dinner idea though in your current state that might be difficult.
One thing I will ask you to notice....You have a lot of true tested DB warriors posting to you. Look at how they write and journal themselves....You might notice we mainly talk about ourselves (narcissistic right LOL)and more mention our spouses (in whatever form they currently are) very little. That is where you need to get....You need to live for yourself and not for your wife. Make it so you are the best Indigo possible and the wife can join in if she wants.
