my wife left, but still lives with me #2/continued

[25yearsmlc]

She took my not going to dinner in stride. No big deal.


How do you know that?

When she got back we briefly talked about finances. I had to ask her to put some money into our old joint account because i didn't have enough to pay all the bills.

Sounds as if you communicated information to her. iS that something she should have known on her own? Based on prior experiences or what?


We have to sit down and figure out what she is going to pay for and what i am going to pay for.
The talk we had briefly about finances she said 'you are turning this into a conversation, you just need to tell me what to pay for because you are the finance guy'.........

So she does not want to have a "conversation" with you. Something about prior communications between you two, is not appealing to her.

Can you think of any reason for that?

Dig deeper.