Oh Willbwell, just reading your thread and offering my support as you have done for me-so similar in ways to mine. You are doing a great job with kids - it will be its own reward. I don't understand the same things you are struggling with about husband's behavior. I know the anticipation of the D paperwork and financials are incredibly trying emotionally: you did a great job at your meeting. Thank you for sharing, keep up your great work on YOU. It think in the new year you and I both need to make it more about us, less about them.
M 20 yrs me 47 H 51 s11 d8
BD 10/8/13 H Moved out 11/30/13 OW slept over with children Dec '13 OW moved in w/H Jan '14