Don't do it. Take it from me. I have had a big problem with spying/snooping and nothing good has ever come of it. I mean it NOTHING. If you must, assume the worst. Better yet- try not to even worry about it and worry about yourself.
As sandi told me in my thread, snooping can become an obsessive habit that only derails you and puts your focus on your spouse instead of on you. Resist the urge to start.
I agree. In fact someone had said (maybe it was Sandi that as a WAW she found her H to be at his least attractive when she knew he was snooping/spying...something to thing about. I reverse looked up one number on my phone bill the other night b/c it seemed weird to me. it was NOTHING. I was all stressed out.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
