Soon after lunch, I sent W a text letting her know I enjoyed lunch and appreciated the conversation. Her reply surprised me.
she basically said she understands where I was coming from when I was unhappy. Acknowledges we weren't communicating, says she loves me and maybe we'll be able to "rekindle the passion". Ended with an i love you and promises we'll talk again.
This is the first time I've ever felt calm about us. in a looooong time.
Good luck with it. It sounds like a positive day from what you've described. Just remember to keep it at a reasonable pace and work to make things last.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
