Sorry BF, I have no answers. Not sure if it's love or a version where he is scared to be alone....

Which brings me to my point. As you know, I went dark...dark dark last week. H didn't contact me except about our switching places arrangement and, only contacted kids to ask about activities.

I emailed Friday about finances, stating my goals when I graduated and that it would be impossible for me to keep this house. Very polite and calm, just saying that the email was simply to give him plenty of notice on how we could proceed in terms of our financial situation- so we could talk calmly and rationally (the finances...always a toughie!!)

Upshot is Sunday he made an excuse to drop by. Told me he made an appointment with IC and would like to move forward with MC afterwards. Also said I would never have to worry about leaving this house if I didn't want to.

I simply said that we would wait until he saw the IC and see what she had to say before we went to MC again.

He also asked me out....he knows that was one of my "complaints"

I know he is trying, but why don't I care? ( That's rhetorical btw)

He didn't fix himself in a week, all he did was get scared, by my reckoning.

Heather, thanks for the valuable things to think about smile Lying is a no go for me, can't do it. The last little bit of control freak I guess. If I know it is the truth, I am good. If I suspect a lie, I have to find the truth, even if it is the truth, which it may not be, because you've, oh I don't know...LIED before!!! Ugly but true wink