my wife left, but still lives with me #2/continued

[dingo]

Don't do it. Take it from me. I have had a big problem with spying/snooping and nothing good has ever come of it. I mean it NOTHING. If you must, assume the worst. Better yet- try not to even worry about it and worry about yourself.

As sandi told me in my thread, snooping can become an obsessive habit that only derails you and puts your focus on your spouse instead of on you. Resist the urge to start.