Reaching out for support and advice 2

[melissag]

Oh, blues. ((( ))) I've gotta run to get dinner with my kiddos, but I wanted to at least post a quick reply.

I am sorry.

Feel your feelings, cry, be sad, this is a huge loss and it is hard.

And when you are done, remember . . . your life is not swirling down the toilet.

Like you said to me, you have your changes and you have your kids - those are for YOU!

He still has awful things to say about me and never misses a chance to put me down.

Why do you want to be M to this?

Your H has some growing to do, Blues.

If you go back and read through the last few pages of my last thread, I bet you will find some great advice that applies to your sitch as well.

Hang in there . . . we all have your back!!