Hi Ye21 and Planet, thank you for bringing the valuable points and also your encouraging words. Actually H thinks I am a terrible wife (I know I am not), and he tolerated for more than 10 years and he cannot do it anymore. You're right. I need to concentrate more about myself and the kids, and stop thinking H. From now on I have to keep reminding myself "no more expectation." Emotionally detaching is more important. One day H told me in a very cold tone "what I am doing now is none of your business any more." It is heart broken, but I guess that's the reality I have to accept. Regarding the timeshare of child custody and the place they will stay, I still have to find out what's the best way for the kids. I think letting them sleep in one place is better, at least during the school days. But definitely H will not agree. He threated me if we cannot reach an agreement, we have to let the court decide.
M 18 yrs 5 & 7 yrs old kids H DB in 4/2013 H moved out in 11/2013
