I am in the same boat. I basically get up every morning, look in the mirror and ask myself what kind of man do I wish to be. I am not holding unrealistic expectations of myself. I know I am not going to be the next Dali Lama...haha
I just want to be kinder, more compassionate and more understanding. I want to be a great Dad. I want to treat people the way I would like to be treated. I can do that!