Back home, having a very hard time!!!

[LoisB]

Indigo,

Before you stomp off the playground, I suggest you think about your ultimate goal.

I think you actually voiced it during your vent.

I can see I may be acting like a sucker her, but I'm not ready to make demands at this time. Being back home with my D means too much to me to risk at this time.

You want to be home. You want to be with your Daughter.

I know you are hurting. I know you are scared. We ALL know how it feels. Really. We've all been there and it's not for the faint-hearted.

Take a step back. Breathe. Identify the goal. You want to save your marriage? You want to live with your daughter full time?

That's where you start. That's a goal.

Now, use the boards to help you reach this goal. You can do this. You too can become a know-it-all, tough cookie like all the rest of us here.

But, you don't have to do anything today. Got it?

Not a thing. Breathe. Hug your daughter. Tell her it's going to be OK because YOU, the grown up, will take care of her. Then, DO THAT.