J, have you noticed how many people want you to succeed? How many people have "been there, done that" ?
How many people totally get what you're talking about and have walked in those shoes with varying degrees of "success" (depending how YOU define success?)
You're in good company, brother.
Next time call him first. Right in the middle of her trying to take control, when you feel yourself starting to lose it. Kind of like an al-anon buddy system. Call. You'll be happier that way.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
