Is it a weight off your shoulders or a new stress for you? Are you stopping the announcement at work people, or will it become public knowledge to all friends/family now?
I knew that I needed to start letting people know about the S. I was hiding behind the secret and I think that it was causing me to become stuck. I was pretending that everything was okay. I had only told my best friend at work about the S right after it happened. I figured that it would come up on the trip because I was not wearing my ring and what married woman heads to Vegas without her ring. Plus I knew that people may be more likely to ask in a relaxed environment when a bit of alcohol is involved. I am sure that it will spread around my firm, but that is ok. It is my life right now and I don't want to live in fear. I figure that if people ask me, I will let them know. I am not going to seek people out to make an announcement.
