I spoke with My attorney today. W's attorney is asking for even MORE financial records. During our conversation, my attorney pointed out that W not working was going to reflect on my support costs. I guess I will have to help fund her goodtimes, while I bust my donuts to pay my bills. Actually no, I am "trying" to pay my bills. I am falling farther behind every month. I took on an extra side job this weekend to pay for daughters dentist visit this week. It just infuriates me to no end! So wrong to me that she can choose to have her sugar daddy pay her way, not work, play like she's 19 years old with a brand new American Express card and have ZERO accountability for supporting herself of daughter. It just erks me! JUST F'IN ERRRRKS ME!
Healing and growing and all that other stuff aside, this would pis$ me off too. I can see why you're so ticked.
This isn't some benign person who can be detached from emotionally and then won't have an effect on suckerpunch's life. She is actively engaging in a lifestyle that affects his take-home pay...his ability to provide for his family. She's gaming the system while he's busting his as$.
I really don't see much difference in what she's doing and the dead-beat dads who don't pay child support or work under the table to avoid making payments. And I don't normally hear anyone tell those women to let it go.
It's WRONG. Just because she's been doing it for a year doesn't mean it isn't WRONG.
I am so glad to not be in a situation like this. suckerpunch, your lawyer says there's nothing to be done? She can just reduce her income, live off of her boyfriend, and force you to pay more $?
Is that how the system seriously works?
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
