How long should you have NC? Depends on why you're having NC. Some people start out NC in order to get their emotions under control. If you're doing NC as a part of LRT, them it goes on until he decides to move toward you or you decide you're done.
How is he taking you for granted?
Sounds like you're doing great with your GAL. Keep it up.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss