Wow 3! A lot happened over your time away. I wasn't expecting your announcement of your separation. Is it a weight off your shoulders or a new stress for you? Are you stopping the announcement at work people, or will it become public knowledge to all friends/family now?

I've debated about this for a long time. Why am I keeping this disaster a secret? H and I are not actually separated. We just have no M and no R. Ugh.

I'm so glad that you enjoyed your time away. Hopefully, you will have a nice transition back home. Your H seemed particularly insecure with your leaving on this trip...

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014