You need to reread Sandi's rules. Do not talk to a bunch of other people in real life about your situation. They just want you to be "happy" and to feel better. But the problem is that if you get a D, it is not going to take the pain away. You don't have to decide anything right now. Focus on YOU!

Do not argue about stupid things with your W. If it is not important and I mean you are willing to die on a hill for it, then let it go. If you argue, you are just giving her ammunition to say this is exactly why I am leaving. Also, do not ask her about whether or not she is going to IC. Focus on your own C.