peaceSJ I have read your threads twice and I can't find any post that shows you vilifying or blaming your H. Not even a rap on the knuckles.
That to me shows character and without much of an ego. You sacrificed and made life as comfortable as possible for your H and kids. You are a good and responsible W and mother. You even understood your own short comings and offered to change for him. What more does he wants? I'm sorry but your H is a bit of an as****e with his childish maneuverings and excuses. I'm sorry but I can't be as diplomatic as others. I'm truly upset for you.
He can't see a gem that you are. In a respectable conservative chinese family, they would have disown the son who leaves his family for no apparent good reason.
You can still save your M If you still want it, by waking up to the fact you are WORTH much much more and live it. Your H will want back in some day.
FWIW, you are the perfect W in my books.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet
