Sorry indigo. I have to agree with the above. Sounds like your W is having a serious bout with cake eating and you are denying that its happening. Until OM is out of the picture completely, there cannot be reconciling. PERIOD.
Both 40 T-22 M-18 S13 S11
Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13 EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13 EA #2-9/13/13
