I've decided against the last resort letter I was considering sending. As far as blocking her email, I found out the best I can to is filter anything from her to automatically go to trash, so that's what I did. She knows where I live if she truly needs to get in touch with me.
As far as a response to her proposed settlement, I am going to reject it on the following grounds- 1) She is not eligible for spousal support so please stop threatening that 2) We need to file 2013 taxes jointly, not separately because we both made more than $10k and we each contributed to IRAs. 3) Her proposed settlement provides no payout for my part of the home equity. 4) Her breakdown of the property division is nowhere near comprehensive enough and includes no property/item valuations. 5) Her proposed settlement leaves me to pay for joint liabilities that she plans to take over after I have paid some of them off on my own, and continue to pay the mortgage on my own. (She's cake eating here right? She lives with her parents and banks her checks while telling me to pay for the whole mortgage and stuff until she plans to take it over and push me out of the house in March! HA!)
I am planning to just send an informal response through my attorney to her's outlining these items and asking her to resubmit a new proposed settlement including these items.
Thoughts on if I am being reasonable?
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
