Your thread title caught my eye as I, too, have an MLC H who has left for the second time...well, actually 3rd! First time in 2000 for a few weeks, then again in 2009. Asked to come home in 2011 just before D was finalized.
I'm sorry you are going through this too! It seems to get easier for them to leave each time and harder for the LBS. I have also noticed big differences in H this time around. He seems confident in his decision to leave this time!
Please do take care of yourself and make sure your changes are real and permanent! Do the 180's! If he thinks what he says will make you angry, then do the opposite and surprise him!
I decided to start seeing an IC this time. My goal is to work on myself and to reach acceptance of whatever the outcome will be this time around!
(((HUGS)))
BD-Aug 2009 OW Confirmed H moves out Dec 2009 D filed by H-Mar 2010 H asks to come home April 2011 BD AGAIN 1-15-2014! H seeing FOW! H ran away again! 1-18-2014
