Settling in for the long road ahead

[labug]

I came across MLC, and a lot of it seems to fit H.

This fits just about everyone at some point in their life. How would you thinking he's in MLC affect you? What would you do differently?

You say your confused, he probably is, too. But the only person you have control of is you.

What changes have you made in you? What are you doing to GAL? What are your goals?

I'm sure you've read about detaching. It's a difficult concept but once you get it, it makes so much sense. Your H's up and down moods don't have to affect you. Another poster wrote this a few days ago and it helped her in working on detaching.

So I can be kind and loving even, but it comes from a place of me being who I want to be, not to try to get kindness and love in return. Giving without any emotional strings attached.

So, be honest in your communication. Interact with empathy and compassion and without expectation.