Loooool you guys are too funny! I love it. Thank you Kate and Lois .

Thank you NLW and KG for your support and love!

I am at my conference with my students now in euros. It's freezing. I don't have a lot of time to write this week but will check in as often as I can and get to other threads as much as I can this week.

Kids and h seem happy and good.

I have much less anxiety I must admit than I have had in previous years leaving the kids with him.

Before I left, h did not stay in the house with us. The night before I left we got went to our friends' house and he drove me home and ended up staying their late and crashed there. I would suppose it's a big step for him to stay at home when I am there.

We'll see. Actively keeping expectations and stinkin thinkin at bay. Keeping gratitude and compassionate at the forefront. Even if I have to bring them there kicking and screaming.

Will come back later.

Love to all

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home