She took my not going to dinner in stride. No big deal. When she got back we briefly talked about finances. I had to ask her to put some money into our old joint account because i didn't have enough to pay all the bills.

We have to sit down and figure out what she is going to pay for and what i am going to pay for.
The talk we had briefly about finances she said 'you are turning this into a conversation, you just need to tell me what to pay for because you are the finance guy'.........


me 41 w43
married 20 years
BD 10/10/13 ILYBNILWY....
4 kids, 21,18,8,6