I HAVE heard her say she wants to be accepted 100% the way she is. Now I've got to figure out if I can do that. Not sure I want to live with someone who is like this.
Yes. Acceptance and Detachment. You obviously can live with someone like that. You've been doing it for some time. Patience.
Originally Posted By: Missmygirl
The argumentative nature she displays has gotten quite tiring.
Ha. Same here.
Originally Posted By: Missmygirl
I know she wants to be cared for.
Leave her to herself. Can't do anything if she doesn't want to be cared for. Offer her but walk away if she doesn't take you up on it. She's still staying with you and no OM. There's a big chance to turn things around. You're in good shape but quit talking about your feelings.
Originally Posted By: Missmygirl
Room and time is what I'm giving myself. I used to think she needed the space. I now feel I need it! I'm not gonna ride this roller coaster anymore.
Yep. LBH needs space too. GOD knows WE need plenty of them.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet
