2x,

I think you've hit the nail on the head. I HAVE heard her say she wants to be accepted 100% the way she is. Now I've got to figure out if I can do that. Not sure I want to live with someone who is like this. The argumentative nature she displays has gotten quite tiring. I know she wants to be cared for. Problem is that when she's this way I don't feel like doing that. I find her attitude repellant.

Room and time is what I'm giving myself. I used to think she needed the space. I now feel I need it! I'm not gonna ride this roller coaster anymore. I'm content to go solo if I have to.


Me: 49
Wife: 39
D's: 9 & 11
Together: 15
Married: 13
Bomb 1 ILYBNILWU: 08/2012
Bomb 2 I feel dead inside towards you: 12/2013
EA? 06/2012-?