It sounds like you are doing well, GALing and acting as if with your W.
Just keep putting one foot in front of the other . . . you are doing great.
Thanks Melissa. I can't wait for the day where we are all not in this dark place. Sure we has some candles or flashlights, but it would be nice to see daylight. I hope your sitch takes some kind of positive turn soon.
I'm trying my best to act "as if" now. I find that I need to break my plan down into one or 2 or 3 easy to remember steps. There is just so much info that I've covered I feel overwhelmed. Be mr compassion because she is broken, act "as if" im normal, and disengage. A positive is that I'm finding myself validating her almost subconsciously now. I don't really have to think what I'm supposed to say.
Let's see what kind of excitement this week will bring. Haha
Me-35 Com law-28 S-3 T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu 1st bu- 2/2012 Rec-4/2013 2nd bu-10/2013 IC-2 yrs(anger issues) MC- 5 mnths-fail OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14 New OM ~10/4/14