Originally Posted By: melissag
2TH, thanks for your kind post on my thread.

It sounds like you are doing well, GALing and acting as if with your W.

Just keep putting one foot in front of the other . . . you are doing great. smile


Thanks Melissa. I can't wait for the day where we are all not in this dark place. Sure we has some candles or flashlights, but it would be nice to see daylight. I hope your sitch takes some kind of positive turn soon.

I'm trying my best to act "as if" now. I find that I need to break my plan down into one or 2 or 3 easy to remember steps. There is just so much info that I've covered I feel overwhelmed. Be mr compassion because she is broken, act "as if" im normal, and disengage. A positive is that I'm finding myself validating her almost subconsciously now. I don't really have to think what I'm supposed to say.

Let's see what kind of excitement this week will bring. Haha


Me-35 Com law-28
S-3
T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu
1st bu- 2/2012
Rec-4/2013
2nd bu-10/2013
IC-2 yrs(anger issues)
MC- 5 mnths-fail
OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14
New OM ~10/4/14