Went dark on 1/4/14, need some advice to continue

[DrAnnie]

The only thing we tried was talking and for him to be more involved with the baby, that was last summer and I gave it a month until I noticed no behavior changes or desired to go to IC or together. So, really we didn't try much until I kicked him out.

Thanks for the advice about legal info; I spoke with two lawyers, an accountant and a financial planner...a bit over board but I wanted to be very prepared, clear and I do not want our daugther's faith to be left to the legal system in some ways...

He is not helping financially because he only makes enough to cover his living expenses?! According to him...today is the first time in a month we exchanged more than 2 text and he said he feels like a failure as a man and then when I ask what are you going to do...he said...I don't know

I am just so torn and a side of me wants to file for divorce to have clear expectations and my other side loves him but it is not sure how long can I wait on this limbo state. Missmygirl, thank you for the reply