3, I am so glad you had a great trip. smile

Don't be surprised if you have a little letdown now that you are back. It happened to me, and it was hard. But, even if you do feel a little down, you have your little guys to pick you up, and you will bounce back, I promise!

Good for you for telling people you are separated. That is one thing I am dreading. I have told very few people, and those are people I trust with anything. What happened when you told? Did they say "I'm sorry" and move on? Or did they ask what happened? I am nervous about dealing with this. I really don't want to be the subject of gossip.

Perhaps it's just letting go of the fear of telling people and knowing that whatever they think, it's not their business, and their opinion doesn't matter.

Sorry, didn't mean to make this about myself. smile


me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14