His son is not reading it that way. If i said son, just realize that your father is only yelling and berating you because he really loves you, i would look like a crazy person.
My h is verbally abusive.
I don't disagree. He is verbally abusive. You would be crazy to say otherwise to your sons. That's not what I'm talking about.
The third quote was from one of your past posts. In one of your early ones, your H was heading to vegas with his HS friends. You wanted them to talk some sense into him
Let's face it, you're closer to the situation than I am. I can only see what you report, right? And at the end of it all, I do see a man who is emotionally limited, although I see one who cares. Sociopathic? I don't have enough information for that but the word did bounce around my head when I was reading some of your older posts.
It's a tough spot to be in regardless. And one that will be tough on your kids to be sure.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."