The next time you see her, try something different. Go out to her with a warm smile and give her a hug and offer her tea. Be an OUTSTANDING son in law. Try that a few times. She may start to warm up. Try something different.
I understand. I have always been courteous to her, more so after BD.
Strange thing happened though. Last week, I overheard XW offering to drive xMIL home. OM will do the driving of course. xMIL refused, insisting xSIL will come over to fetch her but xSIL could not make it. xMIL went one to call xFIL to come over. Now, xFIL is the last person she would call and may risk him getting upset and all. I don't know why she refuse the offer from XW and XW chiding her for it. It's not like OM and XW never came and pick her up from her place before. It may be something or it may not, whatever the reason, I'm staying out of the family drama since I have zero information on what's going on over there.
Anyway, she does speaks to me mainly about the kids. I just don't know why she seems upset lately.
Originally Posted By: Missmygirl
Planet, how are things with you?
I'm doing ok.
Chinese New Year is approaching. Reunion Dinner on the eve is going to be very different this year. No W. No kids. Bro will be away too. Sigh!
Got a gift hamper for XW and her family for the new year though.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet
