Unlearning conflict avoidance - 8

[Missmygirl]

Luke,

I agree with MrBond. You need to TELL your wife how things are going to be for you. STOP asking permission or caving into pressure. What are you afraid of? That you might lose her? She's gone already! The amazing thing is that you are letting your daughter call the shots, too. Who's the parent here?

You're training your daughter and your son. You need to show them how things really should be. YOU lead. Not your daughter OR your wife. If they want to go a different direction, DONT follow them! You just keep going yours. If you don't step up and lead your family, they will ALL desert you. "Leading" doesn't mean "pleasing".