I'll say it here. Your W is playing you.

She says she wants to work things out, yet she texts the OM constantly. You haven't given her any boundaries. Texting that much goes way beyond friendship.

Either there is to be no contact or no you. She has to respect that. Right now she doesn't respect you at all. I can almost guarantee that he's going to string her along and then she's going to be so emotionally attached to him that she's going to leave you. Her excuse will be that it "just happened". Total BS.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER