Originally Posted By: tough spot
So I go to bed last night and say 'good night' to my wife. She responds with 'good night' but with a tone. Based on earlier today and that response i ask 'why are you angry with me'. She responds that she 'isn't angry with me...sigh'.


Ask her HOW she feels, instead of telling her how she feels and then demanding a justification or reassurance. DO you see the difference?

So I ask if she wants to talk about it and she says 'no thankyou'.
So, I went to sleep. Now that is an exciting end to a loaded conversation! smile

We have a mutual couple as friends. I know that my wife talks to just the wife of the other couple about us. I have picked up that their relationship isn't going awesome as well, and that that wife talks to my wife about their relationship. I have a call into the husband for us going out and doing something.

I wonder if that makes her nervous. I was originally just going to 'do something/GAL' with the guy but i think i may have an agenda as well.

I don't think that agenda has anything more to it that just talking to another guy who is in a relationship that is having difficulties.



Seriously? I think you have another agenda. I think your agenda is to gather information and to make your case to a friend you hope will join your "alliance" b/c you believe that will aid you.

But I think it's going to look manipulative and will prove unproductive. If you had any real control here, we'd tell you. But trying to maneuver, is going to backfire.


I will have to be careful of what I say if we do wind up doing something. Geez, i sound nervous like I am going on a 'date' or something. A man date. Maybe I am more confused than I think i am, lol!




That's b/c you know you are not being honest here or with yourself about the agenda.

Be careful what you wish for and be much more discreet. Your w will feel suspicious so don't feed into that.


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