We learn at the pace we learn and sometimes you have to hear things in just a certain way or at a certain time.

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So I can be kind and loving even, but it comes from a place of me being who I want to be, not to try to get kindness and love in return. Giving without any emotional strings attached.


This is great and it is a difficult concept to grasp. It goes against what many of us have learned throughout our lives.

I'm happy you found a meeting that works for you. I know I went to a couple that just weren't what I needed.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss