Went dark on 1/4/14, need some advice to continue

[Missmygirl]

Annie, I'm sorry to hear you are having to deal with his repeated misconduct. It sounds like you've made it very clear that you expect him to remove this OW from his life. You say that you both tried to work on things. What did you both do?

Since he hasn't broken off comm with the OW and he hasn't financially supported you and your daughter, my guess is that he's definitely not serious about wanting to fix things in your marriage. Asking if you're dating is probably just him checking to see if you're still available for him.

Did you have an attorney draw up the divorce papers for you, or did you come up with the settlement terms all on your own? If you haven't already, you should get some qualified legal advice. They think of things that you would never think of. If you follow through on your threat of divorce, you need to be sure that you don't wish you had agreed to different terms.