It seems H is not happy with any part of his life although he puts on a good show! He has had 6 job changes since he quit his job of 20yrs in 2000. 2 of these jobs he was fired from. He will be 55 in a couple of weeks. Both his parents were deceased by age 55. I think that is part of his crisis.
Actually had some text correspondence from him yesterday mostly concerning the washer (of course it would break down after H left!) and him wanting to know how my new phone is doing (he got it for me for xmas) and then he sent one telling me that "he still cared...you know..."
He did work on washer today when he brought D15 home and he and the kids are out cutting wood. Didn't expect him to be here this long today. I had some errands and a wine tasting party to go to so was not home when he got here and thought he'd be gone when I got home.
We talked about washer a little and they left. He seems very comfortable with his decision to leave this time. The first time he left he would be antsy and could hardly wait to get away from me/us/house/whatever.
BD-Aug 2009 OW Confirmed H moves out Dec 2009 D filed by H-Mar 2010 H asks to come home April 2011 BD AGAIN 1-15-2014! H seeing FOW! H ran away again! 1-18-2014
