But i'll be honest with you, this part of the forum is for the spouse that actually WALKS away. You'd be in a better position if you moved over to the "Newcomers" section.
This section doesn't get much attention, and I think you'd get a LOT more advice over there.
Now on to your question for now. You sounds like your a very spiritual person, and I applaud that. But lets face it, its not really helping your wife when you bring it up, the problem isn't God here. Its ANY communication. I think the most important, and also the hardest thing to do early in these situations is to give you wife time and SPACE.
You have to understand, right now ANY form of relationship talk is going to just push her further and faster away. Have you checked out Sandi's 37 rules?
Have you read Divorce Remedy yet? Its very important right now not to let her try an escalate much in terms of communication. As far as she's concerned your marriage is over. Read that last line over and over, and don't think for a minute its not true.
You've got a LOT of work ahead of you. So put up a new post in "Newcomers" and include things like your ages, time you've been married, and any kids B12 means boy 12 years old. No names.
Write out what you think has happened to get your marriage in this position. The more info you put up, the better advice you can start getting without people having to ask a lot more questions before that will give advice.
Be willing to give an honest assessment of yourself too. It will help. Know that we're here to help you, not break up your marriage, know that some are going to give you the digital 2 x 4 for some of your actions. But know its done so you see things from an outside perspective that will help you.
And for now, the biggest tip I can give you......and I apologize for the language used .............but STFU to your wife for now, your only making things worse talking. Get your story out so we can help you get to work.
