update - Contact: so, after me not reaching out to W for a few days she texted me this morning. It was just kids and house stuff, but it was contact.

She was asking to come stay at the house while I take our S to the Niagara falls Tournament. I was just going to have my D16 do it. W insisted to stay at the house. Its still her house too so, I just went with it.

She also asked about what night would be good for her to come and be with the kids at the house to watch shows or a movie. I told her the pen nights and the schedule and asked her to make some suggestions.

I tried not to read into the fact that she contacted. I remained cordial, pleasant and business like...But not eager.....


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14