I have teenagers and basically heard the same thing from W. How this would not affect the kids, etc. I am reading a book right now called," The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce", which documents a 25 year study of children of divorce and the affect it has on them. Basically divorce affects the kids of all ages from infant to adult. I would suggest getting it an reading it before you make any decisions regarding custody, visitation and living arrangements. The best suggestion in regards to the children is that since they did not choose this that they stay in the house and the parents work out a trade off of who stays with them when and the other stays in another living situation.
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