H is pretty much back to how he was before Christmas, sounding down, defeated, doesn't want to touch me although he will return a hug if I give him one. Work is very quiet so that may have some bearing on it, and also it was his birthday this month and he really has an anti-ageing thing going at the moment.

For the moment, until I can schedule another session with my DB coach, I will continue to be affectionate when I see him but I am not taking the initiative with phone calls and messages unless it is regarding work. I thought I might give him some space.


Me 50
H 52
3xDD's in their 20's
1BD. Aug '12
2BD. Dec '12
Left home Sept 13
Work in own business together, almost daily contact.