Afraid I have waited too long

[nit84]

W and MIL did not attend the party today. I didn't ask why but told her she was welcome to some leftovers that I brought home because after all she paid into the party all year.

She returned home about 2 hrs after I did. Now I am sitting here thinking. I wonder what people on the outside looking in at our sitch must think. I don't care that much what is thought because they are allowed to have their own opinions. Just curious, Do they think I am a fool or being taken advantage of? Do they think I am the one being unreasonable by moving back home against W wishes?

I am certainly more happy being back home even though things aren't progressing the way I hoped.

I know the W is not happy that I have returned home but this is for me not her. Can't help wondering though if me being here is helping or hindering my efforts to work on the M. Or at least to possibly get a chance to work on the M at some point in future.

I might never find out that answer again just curious

Has anybody else had a similar experience as this?

LBS left home at WAS request,he gave time and space while working on himself to become the person WAS first fell in love with all over again, Once he could knew he could handle it he returned back to marital home and is now wondering what to do next.

Does it become a battle of wills?

I don't want it to turn into that but I can only control what I do. I realize W heart might never soften to me again and if that is the case why doesn't W just move on and file for D?

She claims to have no money but if you want something bad enough(a D) you can always find a way to make it happen.

If W is not sure what she wants then why not at least try and see if the M can be saved by discussing it me or going to MC or IC?