my wife left, but still lives with me #2/continued

[tough spot]

Just got back to the house. Went out for several hours. That 'chat' with her friend was pretty tough. She had left for 3 days and before she left she mentioned to her friend that she 'wouldn't have to talk to him for 3 days, yay!).

It has been tense here, but i have never said a snide comment, never yelled, only talk about R if she initiates (mostly, failed a few times on initiating). I have never 'behaved' so well as far as disagreements go. She is going to borrow money from her mom for an attorney.

She hasn't told me that, she hasn't even filed. I thought we were going to work out all the details and then have attorneys draw up the paperwork. Sounds like that is going to change. I cannot believe how different she seems. It is almost border line hate.....and i can't think of anything i have done that would warrant such a reaction.

IDK!