Yes I agree that the "I love you's" do tend to send her back into the hole. I have decided, and yes it took long enough, to stop replying with emotion, but to you use a lot more commonsense and DB approach.

I do think she is finding out little by little, that the grass wasn't greener on the other side of the fence.

ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.