Me 15 months on - standing - detaching

[BrightFuture]

Agree about the mindreading, but this is the only choice we have, all of us on this board with very limited contact with WAS. My guess is that she thought that her M was bad and she thought that a new life with OW would be the solution. Maybe the initial excitement wore out and she is not happy again, this is why a counselor and psychologist are involved.

I liked the comment that Wonka posted, that your W probably wants to see some consistency from you. Also, I’ve noticed that every time you say these “I love you”s she retreats back into her hole. I think you said it enough, she knows that you love her. Maybe you need to stop doing it and let her figure out what she wants. It seems like she’s been trying to do it.